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Increasing Relationship and Sexual Happiness Since 2011


What is Sex Therapy

Sex therapy is a form of therapy intended to help individuals and couples resolve sexual difficulties, such as performance anxiety or relationship problems. I provide brief or long-term sex therapy for individuals and couples using an integrative theoretical approach. My style is warm, collaborative, and strength-based. With an integrated approach, I work with clients with respect and compassion. I utilize evidence-based practice and  the most-updated research to develop treatment plan that is unique to your specific needs.

Clients generally meet in my office, while some choose to have some online session if traveling is difficult for the individual. Sex therapy can be for both individuals and couples. I generally meet with my clients weekly or biweekly depending on their needs and functioning. 

It’s normal for clients to feel anxious when seeing a sex therapist, especially for the first time. Many people have trouble talking about sex at all, so discussing it with me as a stranger may feel awkward. However, I try my best to make my clients feel comfortable. Often, we start with questions about your health and sexual background, sex education, beliefs about sex, and your specific sexual concerns.

It’s important to know that sex therapy sessions do not involve any physical contact or sexual activity among clients and therapists. 

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Sexual Dysfunction

If you're struggling with erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, delayed or impaired orgasm, sexual pain, and other sexual concerns that impair your sexual functioning, I'm here to help you find out and understand the cause of your conditions, improve and/or resolve your conditions, and improve your overall sexual satisfaction.

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Mismatched Libido

If you and your partner are struggling with mismatched libido and sexual desires, I'm here to help you understand and navigate each other's sexual needs, establish a sex lifestyle that work for both of you, and improve your overall sexual life and relationship quality.

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Spice Up Your Sex Life

If you and your partner are looking to explore and expand different sexual practices to spice up your sex life, I'm here to guide you how to safely and ethically enjoy practices such as outercourse, kink, BDSM, porn, and much more.

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Area of Expertise

I specialize in helping individuals and couples with relational and sexual concerns.​

  • Physical and emotional sexual pain

  • Erectile dysfunction

  • Premature ejaculation

  • Low sexual desire

  • Mismatched desires and needs within a couple

  • Delayed or impaired orgasm 

  • Porn concerns

  • Sex addiction 

  • Sexual trauma


Reasons People See Me for Sex Therapy

"I'm too scare to have sex"

"Is ________ normal?"

"Sex is too painful"

"He can't keep it hard"

"She's too tight"

"I can't make her orgasm"

"I masturbate too much" 

“I’m a sex addict” or "He's a sex addict"
“I climax too fast”
“I can’t get or keep erections”
“I don’t orgasm during sex”
“I watch too much porn” or ”He watches too much porn”
“I am not sexually interested in my partner"

"I don't feel sexy enough for my partner"

"My partner is not into me"

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My Story and Mission in Sex Therapy

Becoming a psychologist was not a light choice (trust me, psychologist is not on the approved list of "desirable careers" in my family), but a choice guided by my values, passion, and journey of self-development. My own childhood adversities and economic hardship have trained me to be resilient, conscientious, and most importantly, intuitive to my clients’ needs. I intentionally chose to pursue a degree in Doctor of Psychology (Psy.D.) to focus on honing my skill in providing evidence-based treatments that are based on the most updated research.

Become a relationship and sex psychologist was not a light choice either, it is a choice motivated by my past pain, values, and the silent struggles of sexual wellness in the Asian American community. In my early years of clinical training, I shared frustration with many of my individuals and couples facing relational and sexual challenges. There was a lot of shame and stigma  (unfortunately there is still a lot nowadays!) associated with unhappy marriage and sex. Many times, when my clients expressed concerns about sexual dysfunction, pornography, or intimacy, I wish I had the skills and knowledge to help them heal instead of referring them out to a sex therapist. The referral process was especially hard for my clients of Asian American descent and immigrant clients. They already had mustered up their courage to raise these concerns. Talking with a new therapist about their marriage and sexual concerns was imaginable. The referral process was extremely difficult for my monolingual Chinese speaking clients. This was the driving force of me developing a specialty in relationship and sex therapy. I am committed to make sex therapy more accessible to the Asian American community.  



  • 11 years of clinical experience working with couples and sex concerns

  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy - Level 1 and Level 2 

  • Emotional Focused Therapy (EFT) Externship

  • Psychodynamic Couples Therapy (California Pacific Medical Center)

  • Adult Attachment in Romantic Relationships: Overcoming the Fear of Love

  • California Domestic Violence Counselor Certification


I wish for space where nobody has to justify their lawful lifestyles and sexual practices. While we are waiting for the society to progress, I'm committed to provide you a safe place to explore and embrace.

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